Naomi House

We've just got back from our first stay at Naomi House and we had a really great time. We didn't know what to expect and were really nervous about leaving Patrick in a separate room overnight but thankfully we were made to feel so welcome and Patrick's carer was great and really put us at ease. Patrick was given the 'Duck' room, really nice and bright with doors that opened out onto the garden which was lovely, our accommodation was upstairs, it was just like a good hotel, a family room with en-suite and a shared kitchen that was kept stocked up with essentials like tea, bread and homemade cake! Lunch and dinner were served around a giant table in the dining room so we could all eat together, proper home cooked food and lovely puddings, the diet was definitely put on hold for the week!

Patrick kept us all on our toes and had a bit of a bad day on Wednesday, loads of fits, some lasting as long as 9 mins. He was fine apart from that though, he's got some really big teeth coming through so that probably has something to do with it. We had planned to take Isaac out for the day on Thursday but as Patrick was being a bit unpredictable we just took him out for lunch and spent the rest of the day chilling out in the hydro pool. Isaac loved it at Naomi House, he basically had the run of the place, they have a fully equipped play room with every type of games console, we all tried out the wii fit on Thursday night and discovered that Martin aka snake hips is a champion hula hooper! I haven't laughed so hard in a very long time, we have to get one of those things!

They have a lovely big garden with every kind of ball game and bikes to ride on. They bought a little dog called Tumble round one day and Isaac was aloud to take him for a walk around the grounds (although that was a bit of a disaster when the dog smelt the rabbits and ran off!). Isaac also made use of music room and they both did some work in the art room, Patrick had his feet painted for a footprint picture and Isaac made some money boxes.

We spent a while in the sensory room with Patrick, and we made good use of the hydrotherapy pool on both days. It was really nice for me as although we had a busy few days there, I didn't have to do any chores or cooking and although I did still spend a lot of time with Patrick, Ann-Marie and Lucy who were his carers took care of all of Patrick's needs, they washed and dressed him, fed him and gave him his meds. I didn't have to worry about him at all I just got to spend real quality time with him and Isaac, it was great. It was nice too as Patrick, when he's awake and not fitting is so content and happy so he's quite nice to look after, he was never short of attention and had the carers fighting over him!. We really were able to relax there and we were all made a fuss of, Isaac always had someone willing to play football with him so he was happy and Martin and I were inundated with tea and cakes! The only downside to the whole week was the night time, especially Wednesday night. Patrick had had a lot of fits during the day and wasn't settling down to sleep. I left him in his cot at 8pm and went up to bed but when Martin looked in on him later he was still awake. This stressed me out a bit as at night time there are less staff on so the children don't have one to one care. Patrick was left in his room with an audio monitor on that triggered an alarm when he made a noise. The problem with Patrick is that his fits are silent. If he's awake and making noise then you can pretty much say that he's fine but if he goes quiet then it's likely that he's fitting. I was a bit worried that his silent fits would go unnoticed so I sat up with him, unfortunately he was being a bit of a monkey that night and by 11pm still hadn't gone to sleep. I managed to get one of the nurses to move his cot into a room next door where someone would have good visual on him all night so I could go to bed. When he did go to sleep he had a good night and slept until 6am. Apart from that I can't find fault with anything, and we have asked for another 3 night stay in September and a weekend in January.

This break couldn't have come at a better time really as July is a really busy month for us. Next week is particularly busy, with Isaac's sports day on Monday, the van and Patrick's buggy (yeah right!) arrive Tuesday, Wednesday Patrick starts his Hydrotherapy and we have a Neuro appointment at Southampton. Thursday Patrick has Portage and then he's having his MMR on Friday. Look out for a long post next weekend!